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It's Not The Winning or The Taking Part That Counts!

Evanglism Part 1
Andrew K. Fox
Year of alignment


Monthly purpose emphasis

  • Discipleship - God will make you (making disciples)
  • Fellowship - With God (tithes and offerings)
  • Ministry - Helping people (love your neighbor)
  • Evangelism - Leave no one out (go into all the world)

The greatest challenge is church. Its workforce is voluntary, it trades in the invisible and it's always up against the impossible. But it is a great cause that has a great outcome. If you could do anything knowing you could not fail what would that be? I have dedicated my life to what the Bible calls the church because it ultimately will not fail. The greatest cause on planet earth is the expansion of the church. The journey of the church from its inception at the Day of Pentecost to this present day has created many waves. But you do not watch the waves but the tide.

It's not the winning or that taking part that counts

    We say 'it is not the winning that counts but the taking part' or we reverse it, 'it is the winning that counts not the taking part.' Both sides of the argument hold a measure of truth but not absolutely. We are not called to win but we are called to succeed. You can succeed but not win. Christopher Reeve was not considered for the role of Spiderman because he was crippled from the neck down but his story is one of great success. If you aim to win the alternative is to lose. The church does not create a winning culture because it will also create a losing culture. It does create a success culture. It is not the winning or the taking part but the life story of success.

The culture of success

    (Ephesians 1:18) "I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints…" Once you see with the eyes of faith you begin to declare with your mouth to the people around you. In our culture we take what is spiritually understood and translate it into goals and aspirations. But this leaves people unwittingly backed into a corner. Some overstep the boundaries of faith into presumption of 'trying' to believe. Either God said it or he did not. Either there is a strong conviction or there is not. The overwhelming majority of words spoken by God to us in his Word are not about his plans but his divine and wonderful nature. (Jeremiah 29:11) "For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God does not address the fine print but reveals his nature in your future as prosperous and full of hope but he does not reveal the details of the future. The vision of City Church has less to do with what we will be 'doing' in the next three years but more to do with the revelation of who God is. My role is not to say where we will be as a church in the next three years but to declare 'what' I see with the eyes of faith as my heart of 'who' we will be. Vision for the church is far more about creating a success culture than a winning culture of tangible goals accomplished. Creating a climate of revelation revealing who God is becomes the hothouse of which everything is accomplished. But it is always God first.

Language of hope

    Some declare things from God's Word that he never actually said. Others sit back for something incredible to happen to them regarding the future. (1 Samuel 14:6) "Perhaps the Lord will act in our behalf." Jonathan was exercising the language of hope regarding the future. He knew that "Nothing can hinder the Lord from saving, whether by many or by few." Jonathan spoke with assurance about the divine and wonderful nature of God, not the outcome of a pending battle with the Philistines. It is a language of expectancy but not certainty. It is confident but not over confident. It is will promise but not over-promising. It is 'why don't you give it a go? It is a noble task and it is possible you might succeed.' It creates a success culture not a winning culture. It creates a consuming of the spirit of faith not the word of faith. It creates a 'yes' culture where all the lights are always green until God turns them red. I am 90% sure that our church will succeed and the 10% is not doubt but leaving room for God to say something we have not heard before. Our trust is not in a time-line or goals accomplished but in the divine and wonderful nature of God.

Happy to be faithless

    I am happy to be faithless but absolutely dead against unbelief. Faithlessness is the absence of hearing something specific from God but at the same time the lights are green so I can go on in the spirit of faith with the language of hope. Unbelief is a blatant refusal to agree with what God is clearly saying. If you have no specific word from God you can be confident in saying, 'I don't know, I'm not sure, but it is noble so let's give it a go.' Psalm 23 tells us that God will lead us beside still waters and that he is with us in the valley of the shadow of death. His rod and staff always surround you. It does not say where you are going but it does show his divine and wonderful nature as you go. You cannot make yourself believe but you can align your life with your believing. Mary did this when Gabriel told her she was pregnant with Jesus by saying "…be it unto me according to your Word…" It anchors what God has said to the earth with a massive updraft. This is what embarking on vision is like with a zillion plans but the vision is not rooted in the plans but what God has said.

Ten seconds to success

    The Bible speaks overwhelmingly to those who come in second actually come in first. So it is not the taking part or the winning. To win is not the point but to succeed

      1. Second place: (Matthew 20:16) "The last will be first, and the first will be last." Christ had just finished telling the story of a day in the life of vineyard workers. Some had negotiated their salary and received what they bargained for. Others started work later in the day and were paid what was right receiving much more than the first. Suspicion, judgment and gossip come with a winning culture where something is not fair. A success culture honors one another allowing people to run the race marked out for them without competition or pride.

      2. Second fiddle: Aaron played second fiddle to Moses. Jonathan played second fiddle to David. John played second fiddle to Peter. People can suffer from fiddle-itus. The Boston Symphony Orchestra has a literal second fiddle. The player can feel insignificant believing no one cares so there is a loss of enthusiasm, practice dwindles and the outcome is a loss of excellence. But second fiddles come first because they set the inner rhythms, harmonies and establish clarity because they drive the music.

      3. Second mile: Jesus taught a parable about going the second mile. In the first mile you give away your cloak but you have a tunic. In the second mile you give away the tunic. But the second mile leads to the third mile where you understand "Give and it shall be given to you, pressed down, shaken together and overflowing onto your lap." A winning culture is only a one mile race where loss is imminent. But a success culture will lose itself to gain so much more. If a church has a nest egg it will not excel. You have to be exhausted to be recharged and empty to be refilled. Dirt is good when it is filled with seeds of generosity because brown turns to gold.

      4. Second wind: Words like 'hard, hardship, hardworking can prevent you from getting your second wind. People say 'it is too hard' or 'I can hardly cope' but no athlete finds their second wind without first facing the pain barrier. The pain barrier is a switch from your strength to the strength of God in you. "Not my will be done, but yours." If you allow the law of 'hard' to seep in it kills the culture of success.

      5. Second chance: (Jonah 3:1) "Then the Word of the Lord came to Jonah a second time…" A winning culture is only for the strong and youthful. But a success culture gives everyone a fighting chance. The second chance had much more success than the first chance. When people succeed on the first attempt it tends to feed the monster of humanism.

      6. Second stage: (Revelation 4:1) "Come up here…" A success culture always moves from a personal best to a better personal best always spiraling up and never down. The second stage does not let you settle for the best but better than the best.

      7. Second opinion: (Proverbs 15:22) "Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisors they succeed." A winning culture does not ask for advice. When you ask for advice don't ask a novice because they only know by theory. Don't ask someone long in the tooth who still has nothing to show for his life. As Mr. Fruitful and Mr. Proven. Once you have a second opinion don't ask for a third as this had the scent of procrastination.

      8. Second nature: Once you learn to ride a bike it becomes second nature to you. Life is like learning to ride the bike always moving for the first nature to the second. Romans chapter 12 tells us to renew our minds but how is this done? Revelation comes from your spirit producing faith but it is your responsibility to create a pathway of thought aligning the revelation with the way you think. It is a train of thought that must travel from your spirit to your daily thinking.

      9. Second day: One the first day God created light. On the second day God created the sky. The sky is the vast array of opportunity lit up in your imagination. The best of Christianity is not submitting your time and energy but when the believer's imagination is released into the light of God where the sky really is the limit.

      10. Second half: A college student called Roy Riggles was thrown the ball an attempt a touchdown. He ran through the players and achieved his touchdown. But the crowds stood in silence. Roy had run the wrong way and touched down in his own endzone. Before the second half his coach put his arm around Roy and told him the game was not over yet. The next day the college newspaper had Roy on the front page making headlines. Not for making a touchdown in his own endzone but for playing like a man possessed in the second half. Joseph had two sons every person making any attempt for God needs. The first was Manasseh which means 'forget what is behind you' and the second was Ephraim which means 'fruitful in the land of your suffering.' The second half puts your history in a vault and develops a memory for the future.

    It is not the winning that counts or the taking part but the culture of success in your home and in the church.

    If you would like to see previous transcripts you can find them here.:

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